Both are good places to start, for different jobs. HowToVietnamese gives you a free list of 30 flirting phrases, grouped by step and each with audio: good to read through and to hear. Vietflirt gives you 95 short lines, each tied to the moment you say it, with what she is likely to answer and what to do next, drilled until you can say them from memory: good for the moment she is actually in front of you. 17 of them are free, without an account.
| HowToVietnamese | Vietflirt | |
|---|---|---|
| What it is | A free page of 30 flirting phrases, on a site for learning Vietnamese | 95 lines for meeting a woman in Vietnam, each tied to a moment |
| Order | By step: personal questions, texting, asking her out, compliments, feelings, getting to know her | By situation: at a café, on the street, on an app, keeping it going, getting her Zalo |
| Her answer | Not covered | What she is likely to say back, what it means, what to do next |
| Audio | An audio button for each phrase | Synthesised audio for 50 lines and 134 of her answers |
| Learning it | Read and listen | Flashcards that make you say the line from memory, at three levels |
| Pronouns | Uses anh and em, with a short note on how couples address each other | Uses anh and em, and says when to switch |
| Price | Free (courses sold separately) | 17 lines free; the rest in one payment, refund within 30 days |
The conversation has been good for a few minutes and one of you is about to have to leave.
Cho anh xin Zalo được không?
Can I get your Zalo?
Every situation the free lines do not cover: opening at a café, on the street, on an app, asking for her Zalo, and what she says back to each one. Open for life.
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