Pick Jef van de Graaf's page if you want a free, complete page of Vietnamese dating phrases to read and listen to tonight: audio with a slow version, a short conversation, a PDF, and a general section of common responses. Pick Vietflirt if you want each line tied to the exact moment you say it, with what she is likely to answer to that line and what it means, drilled in flashcards until it comes out from memory. 17 of its 95 lines are free, with no account.
| Jef van de Graaf | Vietflirt | |
|---|---|---|
| What it is | A free page of Vietnamese dating phrases and pickup lines, among the free pages of a personal site, with versions for other languages | 95 lines for meeting a woman in Vietnam, each tied to a moment |
| Order | By step: saying hi, compliments, getting to know someone, numbers, days and times, asking out, swapping contacts, common responses, pickup lines, a short conversation | By situation: at a café, on the street, on an app, keeping it going, getting her Zalo |
| Her answer | A general section of common responses to an invitation (a yes, a maybe, a no, and others), each with a reply to give | For each line, what she is likely to say back to it, what it means, and what to do next |
| Audio | Audio for the phrases, with a slow version | Synthesised audio for 50 lines and 134 of her answers |
| Learning it | Read and listen; hide the English to test yourself; a PDF to download | Flashcards that make you say the line from memory, at three levels, a listening mode (her answer, text hidden) and practice scenes |
| Tone | A Safe / Flirty / Bold scale for how forward a line is, and toggles for who is speaking to whom | Short lines that are easy to refuse, and a clean way to leave after a no |
| Region | Northern (Hanoi) usage by default, with a note on southern words | 63 lines work nationwide, 31 come from southern (Saigon) usage |
| Pronouns | The neutral mình and bạn by default, with a note on switching to anh and em as a couple | Mostly anh and em in person, mình and bạn where her age is unknown (on an app), and says when to switch |
| Price | Free, no ads, no signup; an optional tip | 17 lines free with no account; the rest is one payment of $29 for life, nothing renews, full refund within 30 days |
Both can sit side by side: his page to browse and hear the range, Vietflirt for the few lines you want ready when it counts. Neither replaces a course or a tutor if you want to learn the language itself. On Vietflirt's side, two things to know before you choose: its audio is synthesised by a speech engine, and none of its lines has been signed off by a native reviewer yet.
She said no, or apologised, and you need the three syllables that end it well.
Không sao đâu.
It's totally fine.
Every situation the free lines do not cover: opening at a café, on the street, on an app, asking for her Zalo, and what she says back to each one. Open for life.
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